Manners Make Momma Happy! a Weblog from The American School of Protocol

25Feb/100

Analys Marquez talks about CPR instruction at TASP

CPR is an excellent tool to help in emergency situations. In my Children’s Certification Class at TASP, I learned the steps to conduct CPR. The first step is to see if the person can respond to your voice. Next you begin to apply CPR. That’s me in the middle, applying CPR!

This was excellent training provided by a professional.

Thank You!

Analys Marquez, Certified Graduate February 2010

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25Feb/100

Bethany Miller comments about her TASP training in Peggy’s home!

Having had the privilege of attending both the 3 Day and the 5 Day TASP Train the Trainer Classes, I would highly recommend the 5 Day! Both were outstanding classes yet the entire 5 Day class was held in the very warm and welcoming environment of Peggy’s home vs. in a hotel conference room.

Peggy was extremely professional in her classes and made all excited in starting our new businesses.

Thank You for Everything!

Bethany Miller, Certified Graduate February 2010

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25Feb/100

Julie Roberts talks about working with the children at TASP

Having the children participate with us during training was just delightful! Being hands-on with them during all the lessons not only taught the children the correct way to do things, it also helped us practice what we learned by reinforcing them. Seeing a diverse group of children learn social skills that will set them up for success was truly inspiring!

Thank You!

Julie Roberts, Certified Graduate February 2010

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23Feb/100

Meet Carla Thompson, graduate of TASP

The format of the training manual at The American School of Protocol is so complete and concise that it’s like reading a roadmap!  As an educator, I understand the importance of relaying information that is clear and well defined.  Peggy has accomplished this goal with diagrams and language that express the art of etiquette consultation.

Thank You!

Carla Thompson, Certified Graduate February 2010

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23Feb/100

Meet Yanely Peguero, a recent graduate

Having  the opportunity to be a part of The American School of Protocol Family has been a wonderful experience for me! I was delighted with the way table decorations were handled every day to delight the children. They truly showed dedication, love and care.

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Yanely Peguero, Certified Graduate February 2010

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18Feb/100

Meet Mary Anne Carstensen Class of Feb 2010

The fact that The American School of Protocol included a session with a corporate attorney was so helpful and informative. Mary Donne was able to answer questions and help us get started with our business in a professional manner.

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16Feb/100

When Can I Eat?

Recently in one of my blogs we talked about when to start eating if you are at the food court. With everyone hurrying back to their jobs and schedules, we decided that it was OK to start eating even though not everyone had returned to the table.

There is a major difference though in how you handle the ‘when do I start eating?’ in a restaurant or home setting. When the main course arrives at the table, everyone sits with hands in laps until all the plates are put down. Then everyone begins eating together.

Now, let’s suppose that, for whatever reason, one plate has to return to the kitchen. The individual who has no food should now instruct us to please start eating. How terribly uncomfortable it is for the ‘foodless’ person if everyone just sits and makes no attempt to eat. So, the rest of us eat just one bite, put our forks down, take one small piece of bread, rest our hands in our laps, take a sip of our drink and repeat the whole process of slowly eating so that we aren’t finished by the time the foodless person gets his food back.

As the rest of the world often refers to Americans as ‘woofers’ because we eat so quickly, dining slowly and thoughtfully for others is a good thing for everyone.

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5Feb/102

Rules are Rules…or are they?

Because I made a promise to my daughter that I would NOT preach in my blog, I thought I would share with you some slight bends of the rules that I use at my house. They are still well within ‘proper’ guidelines though they do not follow the rules to the letter. Here we go…

When I have people come to our home for dinner, if I am serving a salad at the same time as the main course, I only put a dinner fork on the left side, not a dinner and salad fork. I do this because the salad fork can so easily fall off the salad plate during dinner, or when you remove the plates to prepare for dessert. If I am serving the salad before the main course, then I will set the table with a salad fork, a dinner fork and two knives. That allows our guests to use a salad fork and a salad knife with that course. Then for the main course, the dinner fork and knife will be used.

In this instance, the one rule I do not bend is that I always use the appropriate utensils. Every fork set from left to right is married to a knife.

Do you ever bend the rules? Do tell!

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2Feb/106

Is First Name too Familiar?

Last night we had dinner with two other couples and a very interesting question came up.  One of the couples has just moved back to Atlanta from the northwest. This young family enrolled their 3 year old in a Mothers Morning Out program. The wife stated that here in the south, she was surprised that children could call their teacher by his/her first name, by simply putting Miss or Mr. in front – Miss Debbie, Mr. Mike. The couple asked my opinion and, as always, I was happy to share my thoughts.

When children are given permission to call their teacher Miss Debbie, that dilutes adult power by bringing a child’s first name and a teacher’s first name closer together. Deference has practically faded today between teachers and students. The fact that we allow teachers to be called Miss Anything greatly contributes to that decline. Many public schools in America are scary places to teach because of a lack of respect for authority.

I’d love to hear your opinion. What do you think about children calling teachers by their first names? Why do you think this came into practice? Your thoughts...

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28Jan/102

A Food Court Delimma…

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I am always fascinated with life’s little moments of what to do.

Earlier this week, I wrote about my associate attending a national convention. When she returned to Atlanta, she told me of another situation that caused her to pause. A group of colleagues decided to have lunch at the convention food court. There were hundreds of people trying to get lunch and finding a table was tricky. Once a table was secured, one person stayed to hold the table while others got in line to get their food. When the first person returned with his lunch, the table-holder left to get in line.

As there were so many people in line, the members of the group straggled back to the table one at a time. One person sat quietly and never touched his food. Two other people started eating immediately upon returning to the table. Two people were still in the line for food.

Should everyone have waited for all to return to the table or was it o.k. to start eating?

As the etiquette ‘keeper’, waiting for everyone to return is the rule, but there are times, due to circumstances, when the rules can be broken. The fact that two people ate quickly and returned to the convention floor was out of necessity. After all, this did take place in the food court and that usually means ‘lunch and run’.

The fact that one person waited for the other two before eating was great and showed good manners.

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