College is an exciting period in young people's lives. It is where they define themselves, learn new things, develop lifelong friendships, and take steps toward success as adults. My fondest college memories are mostly social related: fraternity and sorority dances, homecoming celebrations, cheerleading, weekend visits to friends' homes, dining out and church on Sundays. Reminiscence of my experiences brings laughter and the thoughts of how "those were the days!" On the other hand, I cringe when I reflect on my lack of decorum and improper manners. Knowing what I know now, things would have definitely been different. The following are some helpful tips to benefit college students:

Accept and value differences in people. College students are guaranteed to meet people from various backgrounds, ethnic groups and social status. Take the opportunity to learn from peers by embracing diversity. You will be amazed by your interesting discoveries of others' worlds.

Treat others with respect. I regularly teach that to be respected, you must show respect for others. Upholding the Golden Rule (treating others the way you want to be treated) is a key component to the success of a college student. Sharing space with a roommate can be difficult if boundaries and respect are not highly adhered to. Make it a priority to live in peace with others and be aware of others' feelings and rights.

Exhibit a warm and friendly demeanor. Greet others in the morning and throughout the day. Smile regularly. Make as many friends as possible. Don't isolate yourself; you may miss some great opportunities. Also, positive interactions with others help you feel more confident. It is wise for freshmen and incoming students to take advantage of orientation sessions. What a great opportunity to meet new classmates-to-be.

Present yourself properly to the school's administrators and staff. Make a special effort to become acquainted with your professors by introducing and providing some background on yourself. Extend a proper handshake and express gratitude for the opportunity to be in their classes.

Exhibit proper table manners at every meal. Although the majority of your meals will be eaten in the cafeteria, you must demonstrate exemplary dining decorum. In addition, eat well balanced, nutritious meals.

Dress appropriately for class and school events. Your appearance says a lot about you. Stylish pajama attire is inappropriate for the classroom and hats are not to be worn in class. When packing for school, ensure your wardrobe is suitable for varied occasions. Semi-formal wear and business attire should be included with your other fashionable "fits." As well, don't forget dress shoes.

Exhibit good work ethics while working on campus. The foundation for successful employment highly correlates with proper job etiquette. Work with integrity, be reliable and take pride in your work. Model employees easily obtain superior references.

Discipline yourself and use self-control. Be cognizant of your behavior to not bring public embarrassment upon yourself. Clean up after yourself in common areas such as dormitory restrooms and the cafeteria and do not litter. If you must drink alcoholic beverages, bear in mind that your reputation can be ruined by regularly overindulging. Also, freshman and sophomores, the legal drinking age is 21.

Finally, enjoy the college journey while making the best of everyday!

Are you ever annoyed by the mannerisms or lack of decorum by people in public places? Have you made the comment “someone needs to teach him/her some manners?” When attending entertainment venues, be it a food & wine festival, concert, theater, sporting event or museum, your manners are always on display. Being courteous and respectful toward others is essential. Many etiquette experts share my opinion that following the Golden Rule – “treating others the way you would like to be treated “is best when interacting with people.

This summer as you are enjoying all of the outdoor festivities, we have five simple guidelines to take into consideration as well as share with others:

Make an effort to be considerate of others. Holding the door open for the person behind you or not having one person save a space in line for 10 other people are exhibitions of consideration. Arrive on time for events to avoid bumping and crawling over people. If you must pass over those seated, say “excuse me” or “I’m sorry” and pass facing the person. It’s better to see one’s face then their back side.

Don’t allow your behavior to disturb others. Keep your feet on the floor and not on the seats around you. When talking, keep your voice low or wait until intermissions and between performances. Please don’t draw attention to yourself by shouting loud comments or booing performers. At concerts, refrain from singing along or humming unless asked to by the performer. You may have been blessed with a beautiful voice, but others paid to hear the headliner.

Always play it safe when drinking. If you are having a good time and alcohol such as wine and cocktails are involved, always assign someone in your party to be a designated driver. Summer festivals are full of great food and drinks, so it is important that everyone enjoys themselves responsibly.

Follow the established rules of the venue. If food and drink are not allowed, don’t sneak it in. If it is allowed, clean up your area before leaving and properly discard trash. Always sit in your assigned seat and instead of scouting extra or unused tickets, make someone’s day by offering the ticket free of charge.

Confirm that children are allowed first. Going to events with the entire family can be some of the best times. When taking children to any type of public event, always look at the event details to ensure children are allowed and what type of activities will be available. In addition, be sure to keep an eye on them and that they too are being respectful of other children and their parents.

Good manners often start in the home but should extend to the public. Always be aware of your surroundings and consider the feelings of others. By adhering to the rules of the establishments and showing the highest degree of respect toward others, shared experiences can be pleasurable for all.